Trying to get back your ex boyfriend after a very difficult break up is so tough.... Maybe your ex boyfriend has decided that he needs to move on, and he isn't prepared to try and make it work... If this is the case, you have a very difficult decision to make, and a tough challenge...
You need to decide if the relationship is worth fighting for. Don't let your pride be a determining factor in this decision. Reflect on the relationship and examine the good and the bad from an objective standpoint. If you still truly love your ex, then it is possible.
Once you have decided that you want to fight for your man and your relationship, you need to be prepared for all possible outcomes. This sounds bleak, but looking at things from a couple of different angles will help you gain perspective...
You need to devote yourself to creating a strong plan if you have decided that getting your ex boyfriend back is what you really want... This requires that you keep control of your feeling, keep it calm and together, and prove to your man that you are a strong woman....
Providing your ex with some time and space will help things for sure. It will give you some time to make a plan to get him back, and it will make your ex start to think... Turn off your urges to call during this time. Cell phones off... No facebook, or text messaging allowed!
During your time apart and when you have cut off communication, he will start to think more about you... If you push too hard and break the no contact rule, you will dinminish your chaances of getting him back. Have a special girls night to yourself, watch your favorite 'feel better' movie, and start strategizing... I recommend Bridget Jones.... it makes me feel better.... And I LOVE that Mr. Darcy!!!!!
You can get back your ex boyfriend after taking some time to reflect and make a plan... Have a girls nights at home and learn more about how to get him back...
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There are two options that you can make if you need to get back your ex boyfriend... 1. Beg and plead to get him back, or 2. Take some time, plan, and don't talk to him....This will shift the power in the relationship and will show him that he stands to lose YOU!
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