Breaking up is hard to do. If you want to get back together with your ex boyfriend, you need to be sure that he still wants you back. Luckily, if the two of you were in love at one point, it is very likely that your love can be rekindled.
During your time alone, you should be reflecting on the strengths and weaknesses of your past relationship. What about it is worth saving? What needs to change in order for a new relationship between you two to be successful? Don't let your pride get in the way of looking at the situation objectively; consider your personal strengths and flaws, as well as his.
As soon as you make the choice that you are going to get your ex boyfriend back, you need to face the possibility that things will not work out. This might sound harsh, but examining the situation from the perspective of being alone can be really motivating.
Above all, you must show your ex that even without him, you are a strong, independent woman. You must show him that you are ok on your own, even though you want him back.
It is wise to start by giving your ex a little bit of time and space. This also gives you some time to think about what you need to do to get your ex back. Don't send him any emails or text messages. Don't dial his cell number.
Give your ex some time to start missing what he had with you. You need to relax, reflect, and start thinking about some strategies. Make a plan on how to get him back. Conduct further research. If you smother him now, your chances of getting him back will dwindle.
With time and research, it is possible to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him with you forever!