So you are questioning does the no contact rule with your ex really help to get her back? To bypass all the fluff, the answer is: Yes, it certainly does! Nevertheless, this idea may be tough to digest. After all it makes no rational sense, does it? How can just shutting somebody out possibly get them back?
To flip this around, answer this question: How does remaining in your ex girlfriend's life get her back? Remaining in her life does not make her wonder about you. Remaining in her life doesn't force her to heal on her own. All remaining in your ex girlfriend's life does is make you her emotional tampon.
Try to remain in her life after she broke up with you, and she will use you to ease out of the relationship gracefully. You are giving her a way to ween herself off of you. Now, you're probably thinking that if you support her emotionally then that will only draw you two back together. Think again.
This will only help her to heal while you are only left with the hope that she will see what a great guy you are and change her mind. What will happen is she will move on and leave you and your hopes crushed.
So how does the no contact rule with your ex really help to get her back? For one, it forces her to heal on her own. It forces her to face reality without you. It forces her to face being alone without you supporting her and being all sensitive. She broke up with you. Why would you make it easy for her to get over you?
The only way some one can miss you is if you're no longer around. This article just scratched the surface on how no contact can help to get her back. There is so much more to no contact than you think.
So many people get the no contact rule completely wrong. It's so much more than just stopping communication with your ex girlfriend. Discover all there is to know about the no contact rule and how to use it properly in order to maximize it's effectiveness to get her back.
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