when couples break up sometimes there still exists a lingering hope that they could still fix and work out their relationship. If you are in the same situation right now, are you also thinking that your relationship deserves a second chance? You don t want to give up on it yet and you are really determined to give it another try. This article shows you the fastest tips on how to get your lover back without losing your self respect and grace.
1. Go to the root of the problem. Do not solve the superficial problems. Find out the issues in your relationship that you think which led to your break up. Figure out what caused the problem to come up in the first place and what were your actions that may have contributed to it. Be willing to make the necessary changes.
2. You don t realize it but if you have just recently broken up, your lover still misses you and thinks about you too. However, this is not enough reason for you to call your ex and ask him if he wants to get back together with you. Remember, although he misses you, he asked for the break up and getting back together with you at this point is the last thing on his mind. If you keep asking and calling he will only see you as pathetic and needy making his resolve of leaving the relationship stronger.
3. Make an effort to look good and feel good about yourself. You don t know it yet but buying and wearing new clothes can do amazing results to your confidence level. When your ex sees you in a different way he will start to second guess his decision of dumping you and will entertain thoughts of getting you back. He won t be able to help it but look back to the wonderful and pleasant times you had together.
4. Contact some old friends he doesn t know of and go out with them. It can be a date with someone or you can go out in groups. If your ex learns that you re going out with a new circle of friends he doesn t know, it will keep him on his toes and increase his interest in you.
5. Bring back the same amazing person he fell in love with the first time you knew each other. Sometimes we become too comfortable in our relationships and let ourselves go. You don t have to pretend to be someone else. The trick is treat him and talk to him the way you want him to treat you and talk to you.
6. Let him know that he is not the only guy or girl you can have fun with. Show him that you have friends and family around you who can make your life worthwhile even without him. But may I remind you, do not overdo this step because it may backfire on you in the long run.
7. Love yourself more. Your main goal is to get your lover back but focusing on yourself than him is the key to this technique. If he tries to call you and send you a text message, answer him politely but briefly.
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