While doing your Saturday morning shopping you're surrounded by people. Couples walking hand in hand, smiling and chatting. As you look at them you wonder how they met. Were they shopping, doing the laundry or browsing an internet dating site?
And right about the same time you can't help but feel that you want to be part of a twosome as well. Rest assured, you're not alone. Lots of singles feel exactly the same way. You wonder why you haven't found someone to share your life with. You always thought you would; you went to school, have a good job, but you haven't fallen in love.
Along with that, many people even hope to get married one day and maybe have children. Perfect right? Then in an instant your plans seems to change. One thing to remember is not give up. If you keep positive and remain aggressive, it will be only a matter of time before you meet someone and have the life you want.
While you're on your quest for a partner, you still need to live your life to the fullest So take advantage of your single status and do the things that you might not be able to do if you were part of a couple.
1.Go on a trip on the spur of the moment. Let's say your best friend has an extra ticket to a concert out of town; one that you really want to attend. Your single status works in your favor; no one's feelings will be hurt if you pack an overnight bag and just take off.
2. Since you're not part of a twosome, you can date as many people, and as often, as you'd like. While you're narrowing down your list of "must have" and "would like" you get to know people that wouldn't have a chance of meeting up with if you were attached.
3. If you live alone, as a single person you get to have the place to yourself. This means not having to share the remote control, sleeping late or keeping the house as loud or as quite as you please.
4. If your plans suddenly change because you have a last minute invitation to dinner or a party, you don't have to phone home to let anyone know.
5. You don't have to cook and can eat out as much as you please. Also, you can keep your place as neat or as sloppy as you like.
Although many of these things mention above may sound selfish, they are things to consider when dating. Knowing that you can do what you want when being single and knowing this changes slightly when you are involved could help one know that life does change and help them to adjust themselves accordingly. This way, when you do finally meet that special someone you might be more willing to inform them of your whereabouts.
Reflecting on these points can also help you decide whether you really do want to be attached to one person for the rest of your life. It can be a wonderful experience, but it's not for everyone. So make the most of your single life while you're looking for The One.
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