Is attracting women with body language really possible? You Bet!
Bear with me here. have you ever wondered how some deaf people tend to be so good at communicating with all parts of their body? This is something that most hearing people find curious once they watch it in action because most of us don't' know how to use anything but our voice to communicate with women. Since it is now estimated that all but 10% of our communications are done through nonverbal means, we are obviously at a huge disadvantage if we don't know how to use body language when picking up girls.
When you know the art of body language you can pick up girls without even speaking to them! The following tips will give you a better understanding how body language works and so you can get started attracting women with body language and rev up your love life.
Insecurity is Obvious
Find a crowded place to sit back in a corner and do some casual observation. Look at different men in the area or walking by and determine your initial impressions of them. You will find that insecurity can be spotted across the room at a great distance. Some behaviors that give the impression of insecurity include:
* Fidgeting
* Uncertain glances around
* Indecisive movement
* Poor posture
Do you think you display any of these signs of insecurity when you are out in public? If so, you know what you need to work on in order to be more attractive to men. Insecurity is never attractive!
Fill the Space Around You
While you were doing your observation, did you notice that some men just seem bigger than others? They may not even be bigger in physical terms, but they seem to fill up the space around them unapologetically. They occupy space and do not try to avoid running into others or knocking elbows. They are so confident and dominant that they literally hog up space in a room!
That is the kind of masculine security that women are naturally attracted to!
You can observe this larger than life behavior in many male movie stars. They are so confident and sure in every step they take that they don't have to look around at others. This is the kind of physical behavior you want to adopt for yourself.
Forget About Personal Space
Dominant, confident men are also not concerned about crossing the boundaries of personal space. They don't get up in a woman's face rudely, but they definitely show after a couple minute's of interaction that they are perfectly comfortable reaching out for a touch or playful poke.
At first these touches may be a little awkward or new feeling, but you can warm her up to it by touching her cell phone, purse, jeans, or other belongings first. Then touch her in playful ways that are brief and very comfortable and innocent seeming.
Attracting women with body language may be new to you so you won't feel completely comfortable using body language to pick up women until you have practiced it quite a bit. Take these tips and get out there for some real life experience! Flirt with women that you find attractive and plenty that you don't find attractive just to get used to how it feels and to see how they respond to you.
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