Breakup is a hard event to go through in one's life. In the initial stage, it is hard to believe that the breakup actually happens and you have a difficult time concentrating on your job. You would have given up the world to have her back to you side. If you are serious about getting back with your ex, then you need to get your emotions under control and analyze objectively what went wrong.
You should be asking yourself these questions: a) Is it something that you did that caused her to be unhappy or something she wants you to do but you never do? b) Whatever it is, can you do anything about it?
Change is hard, that is the reason it takes real courage and commitment to change. So, even before you even attempt to win her heart again, show her in your action that you are willing to change. After that, action talks louder than any words. Sometimes, it is enough to get back together with your ex. However, most relationships has reached a point where only a lot of efforts can move her heart again.
On the other hand, if the cause of breakup is really beyond your control, just accept that sometimes bad things happen to good people. Then, move on with your life. Keep the goodwill with your ex girlfriend and make it known to her that if you can do anything to make things better, you certainly will.
Accept whatever outcome and have a full happy life. Do not pretend to be someone else even if you are desperate of getting back with your ex. Do not compromise you true self. The relationship only works if your ex accepts you as you are.
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