1) First of all, make some researches on how others handled the same situation. Learn from their mistakes and copy their positive strategies.
2) Don't be overly concern; the stress is not for you alone to carry. It is for both of you, the bride and the groom. But that is not all, your parents and in laws are there to help you plan. All of you must spend a quality time to discuss about important issues to be handled such as; budgets, venue, invitations, speakers, rings and many more.
Notice that as you discuss the matter things will become lighter and lighter knowing that helping hands are available for you. They can ease your heavy load and can help you lessen your worries and anxieties in this incoming event.
3) Whatever the result of your discussion, you know you need to start preparing maybe 6 months or even more before your wedding day. Allow sufficient time to plan wisely and don't rush for that day. Advance preparation can help you be well organized and be more confident.
4) Delegate other responsibilities to your willing friends or relatives. They can help you with flower arrangements, bouquets, the making of tokens and invitation cards.
5) After everything is set up, the venue, dresses, speakers, rings, and other responsibilities are delegated, calm down and relax. Don't let yourself be so much occupied with the anxiety of the wedding preparation. If there are some additional things to settle, take your time to sit down and discuss the matter.
6) Most of all don't demand perfection in this occasion. Like any other wedding days, there will always be something wrong. Though we do our best to plan and prepare for it, we cannot avoid problems to happen. Accept the reality that mistakes happens once in a while and it must not affect the sanctity of this happy occasion. If we set a positive thinking like this, we can handle the situation easier and less stress.
7) Remember the importance of this day is for you and your future mate. Enjoy it by putting your heart and soul into it. This is something very special that happens in your life once. It will not be repeated again. This is the day when your hearts will be united as one and be united forever. Indeed, be more concern about the significance of this occasion instead of being overly concern about the other things that can distract you from getting the real message of your wedding day.
These are just some of the things on how to handle the stress in planning for your wedding day.
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