After a big breakup, you will find yourself thinking 'I miss my ex boyfriend.' and this is a thought that will make you feel very lonely.
Not only do you miss the times you had together, but to be quite honest, he took a piece of your heart with him when he left. There are two steps to help you get over your ex.
The first step is to bring closure to the relationship. You should make sure that there is no chance in the two of you getting back together. Knowing this will help you heal. After you have determined this, you should make sure to exchange the possessions you have of his and the possessions he has of yours. If either one of you owes money to the other, then pay it back as soon as possible.
Do not let him contact you or you contact him. You may be able to have a friendship in the future, but right now you need time apart to heal and to truly separate your lives.
If you find yourself still thinking 'I miss my ex boyfriend.' after awhile, then you should write him a letter. The letter should include how you felt about the breakup and the relationship in general. After you finish writing the letter, you should burn it. This will help bring closure to the relationship.
The second step is to move on with your life. After you are finished hurting, you should put yourself back out in the market. It might be weird at first, but you need to go face the world as a newly single girl.
Soon you can find someone new. You may need to go hang out with your friends in order to get your mind off of him, or meet new friends even.
One of the best ways to fill the gap your ex left is to join a class or a monthly book club. When you are participating in activities that you enjoy, you will find yourself missing your ex less. As soon as you can, you should start dating again. The first guy may not be 'the one' but it will be nice to just get back out there and go have fun.
After you date for awhile, you will be able to find someone who will love you, appreciate you, and treat you like you should be treated.
So whenever you find yourself thinking 'I miss my ex boyfriend.', you should get rid of his things, find closure, get a hobby, and move on with your life.
After all, there are plenty of guys out there for the picking.
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