Some people believe that when we want to get back together with an ex, we should treat it as a game. They even use the word win, as in, "I want to win him back". If you really want to "win love back" stop treating it as a game.
If you really are serious about getting her back (or him), then you need to ask yourself some very important questions AND be able to answer them.
- Why, how, and when did your relationship go bad? Was your marriage bad from the start? - How much were you responsible? - What could you do to improve yourself that would make your ex love want to come back? - Is your relationship with your ex worth the effort? - Is there enough good stuff there to warrant the effort to make the needed repairs? - Were you ever genuinely good together? Good for each other? - If you aren't willing to work on your own issues, you will bring the same issues into your next relationships?
Tough questions, for sure. There clearly are some serious reasons as to why your relationship came to an end and if you don't know what they are, how can you expect to get an ex back?
Don't mess about, don't play silly games. Don't try to make your ex jealous. Don't say you are willing to change when you aren't. Don't lie or deceive them, especially about your interest in making changes. Just try to be the best possible version of yourself. Be that wonderful guy or gal that your ex fell in love with in the beginning of your relationship. Be that caring, understanding, loving person. For all you know, your ex could be waiting for you to make the first move. He or she could be waiting for you to change back to the person that attracted them to you in the first place.
Put everything you've got into this. You, your ex and the relationship deserves your best. Believe me, I know how tough and challenging it can be to win an ex back. f the lucky ones thaIf your relationship is worth saving, don't treat like a game. Take it seriously and you may be one ot gets back the love of their life.
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