One of the most difficult events in your life is the end of a marriage. Running a close second is the realization that you should have fought harder to keep it from happening. If this describes your situation, you have two options: give up, or fight to get her back. If you decide to fight, I have some helpful suggestions that other guys have used to revive their marriages. They've worked for others. Maybe they'llwork for you too.
1. Grow Up - The #1 thing you must do is act like an adult. Control your emotions or she'll never come back to you. When we're hurting as bad as you are now, we're prone to saying or doing things that aren't so mature. If you're going to have any chance to get your ex back, you've got to get your emotions under control. I know this is tough but you've got to do it. Lash out at her in frustration and you could ruin your chances to get your wife back.
2. Accept Your Share of Responsibility - Do you feel that everything is her fault? Well buddy, you need to change your attitude, and fast. In the real world, you both bear some of the responsibility for what went wrong. Both of you bear some responsibility and both of you will have to make changes to make it work. She's going to want to know that you accept some of the responsibility for what went wrong before she'll even consider getting back together.
3. Bring Back the Memories - She fell for you once. She can do it again. Do things that remindRemind her of who you were and what you did that caused her to fall for you before and it will be easier for her to do it again. Chances are good that after you got married you stopped doing many of the things that attracted her to you in the first place. Get back in shape. Start dressing with a little style again. Return to being the man she fell for in the first place and you'll make it easier for her to remember the old you that she loved so much.
4. Make a Real Effort - To fix what went wrong with your marriage you are going to have to maje changes. Show her that you are willing to make the changes that are necessary. This might mean going to a marriage counselor or giving up your nightly trips to the corner bar. Or maybe it is something as simple as actually paying attention when she talks to you. Whatever it is, you have to really do it, not just talk about doing it or go through the motions. She's not stupid and will quickly figure it out if you are just playacting.
These techniques can surely get you started down the road toward getting your wife back. But there's a lot more to it than just these four things. There's so much more you can do to improve your chances of getting back together.
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