Painful breakups make it hard just to breathe sometimes. Some do not think that they cannot go on without that one person in their life. Good news is, that you can and will go on in life, but if you think that the relationship is worth saving, all you need are a few "get him back secrets".
The first secret is to "Be yourself". People tend to try to please their partners while they are in a relationship with them, which is good to an extent. Sometimes those people tend to lose themselves and who they really are while trying to please their partner. This is a bad thing and could very well be one of the reasons the relationship started going downhill in the first place. While you are trying to show your love to your partner, you start to lose the qualities he fell for to begin with.
You might tend to be clingy and dependent on him for you to be even the least bit happy. If this is true then he may feel smothered. You should find that person you used to be and bring it out again, showing him the woman he fell for once more.
The second secret is to stop all communication. This means no texts, emails, or phone calls. If he was the one doing the breaking up, then this means that he is through with you. Though this may not be a permanent thing, you should still give him time to miss you. He may have felt smothered and like he had no other choice and if you keep calling him, then he will keep feeling smothered. Let him have some space.
The third secret is do not take all the blame. If he comes back to you, wanting to make up, do not let him put all the blame on you, nor should you accept it. It takes to to make a relationship, two to break it, and two to try and repair it. Your relationship is no exception to this. Be honest and open up to discussion, while listening without getting mad at the same time.
Get him back secrets are easy to follow and if your ex really does want to make it work, then he will be back. Do not let yourself be played though. Make sure that the relationship is an honest and true one and you will be well on your way to making up after the break up.
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