Well now the time has come to where you need to ask yourself 'Do you want to save your marriage?'. Maybe your friends are even asking you that. If you have decided that the answer to that is "yes", you will have a tough road ahead of you.
You have to step back and take a look at your marriage as a whole. You need to decide if this is really the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. If you decide that your partner is not the one for you, you should talk about getting a divorce now. If this is indeed 'the one', then be ready to start taking the steps to save your marriage.
It is time to get down to business. You do not need to get a divorce if the marriage is worth saving and can be saved. This time you have made the commitment to making this marriage work. Here are the steps you need to take.
The first step involves changes. Realize and accept that there are going to have to be some changes made in order for the marriage to work. You should know that you had a part in the downfall of your marriage and the sooner you know that, the sooner the making up can begin.
Maybe you had some bad habits, like not cleaning up after yourself, putting work before your family, or were addicted to something. Now is the time to change that around and show your partner that you are wanting to change and save what the two of you have. This is not just a one time thing though, you need to be committed to the change as well as to your partner.
Another step involves communication. You have to be willing to be open with your partner and be a good listener. Do not nag or fuss, just talk. You could even get involved in one of your partner's hobbies, just to bring the two of you closer together.
If you and your partner have discussed marriage counseling and have decided that it is the best option to saving your marriage, then you should look for a local counselor for you. The counselor will be looking at your marriage from the outside and will ask questions to get the two of you to open up to each other. Just remember that no marriage is perfect and we all hit that rough road a time or two, but this does not mean that your marriage cannot be saved.
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