Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend? Are you having a difficult time thinking about anything else and would do anything to win back your girlfriend?
When we have lost someone we care about, it normal to experience a range of emotions such as guilt, anger, despair, blame, frustration and regret. If you really want your girlfriend back, then it is time to get real with yourself without letting those negative feelings cloud your judgment.
What do you think caused the break up? Was it something you did, or didn't do?
Is it something that can be fixed? If so, fix it now! Apologize and mean it. If you are lucky person this is all you need to do. However, it's likely you will need to do a lot more to win your love back.
If whatever caused the break up can't be fixed, you will need to accept it and move on. However, you can still make the effort to let your girlfriend know that you are sorry and that if you would change things if you could.
It is critical that you take care of yourself to help win back your girlfriend.
Make sure you haven't let your appearance slide since you first started dating. And make sure you haven't gone to pot since you broke up. Nothing says loser like some guy who hasn't showered or shaved in a week because of a break up. Or hasn't showed up for work. Or cleaned his apartment. Looking your best can only help make you feel good about yourself and your confidence will show. Women intuitively know this and often get a new look or buy some new clothes after a break up. No harm in having your ex remember how good you can look! Make sure your clothes are stylish, suit you and that you are well groomed. You are showing her and announcing to the world that things are normal and you are the person that attracted her to you in the first place. Not the sad sack guy dumped by his girlfriend. You want to be the guy that gets his exgirlfriend back!
The goal is not to cause your ex to become jealous or upset. This is not a game. Flirting or falsely trying to impress her will be counterproductive. What is most important is that she comes back to you because she truly wants to.
Be patient. She may give you signs that she wants to come back soon after the break up or it can take weeks, even months. During this period, you have a critical role to play - be her friend. This helps you to stay close and to show you have changed for the better. It will also help you to spot the green light when it goes on and you can start to get your exgirlfriend back.
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