Turning the Relationships Into Eternal Casual Relationships

Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo

"Hey Vin, When I review my notes from the weekend I was like holy guy that is on another level!!

I'm sending you this because I tried emailing him but I guess he's booked which is what he said. I guess you guys are doing pretty good if you guys are all booked in January when it's freakin cold!

I want to say that I believe in you Vin. I think you're the man and you're a guru to me and to some of my friends - I told them all about you and the stuff you do. They think it's awesome and even they sometimes ask me for advice!!

I've been doing awesome. I get numbers with no problem and it's actually easy to meet girls when I go out. Actually that's part of the problem because I've been going out and hooking up a lot. Like I mean A LOT. Put it this way my bed is taking a beating you know?

So here's the problem.... I'm getting girls in bed pretty dang fast. All my friends are always asking me HOW THE HELL DID YOU PULL THAT OFF haha well I try to tell them about your stuff so who knows what they'll do (I have one friend in particular who could really use your stuff)

I want to make these girls into actual girlfriends. It's like I sleep with girls, but then when I try to call them or set up another date or whatever they don't get back to me. I have to like start over every dang time. What do I do to take it to the next level (we covered this on Sunday but I'm having trouble I think in making the girl think that I really like her like I have a player vibe maybe or something...

I know I wasn't you weren't there with me but I thought you could help."

-- from Shane G of Minnesota

Jeez Shane, I'm so sad for you. You're sleeping with new girls left and right. Awww poor baby.

I'm kidding. In all honesty, I know where you're coming from man. I had this same problem a few months after I really started putting things together.

This is actually a really frustrating situation. Imagine doing all that work - approaching (which always requires you to summon up some courage), carrying the interaction all the while focusing on the direction you want to take things (kind of like driving to a location without a map, only cardinal directions), and all the while, still feeling underqualified because you just started doing this kind of thing...

Ok let's analyze at the three things causing what Shane's getting in terms of how girls treat him.

Before I say anything, I want to point out that it takes a massive amount of attraction for a woman to sleep with you the first night you meet her.

So Shane is doing something right. He's clearly internalized the behaviors that make a man DOMINANT, which is the first step when NATURALLY ATTRACTING WOMEN.

But why are women not staying in touch after sleeping with you?

First, it could be that they get the sense that he feels he doesn't truly DESERVE to be sleeping with them.

Second, it could be that Shane is doing bad in bed. And no, I don't mean his actual performance, because that doesn't matter as much as other things. I'll explain later.

Third, it could be that Shane is sending the wrong message about his INTENTION FROM THE START.

Let's look at the first issue. If you are just getting started, you may end up fawning over a woman when you get intimate with her, because she's the hottest girl you've ever been with.

This disappears as time goes by, and then you can appreciate her FULLY, like a dominant, powerful man. This is when beauty is not something you see on a pedestal, but rather something you cherish and appreciate as a gift you can enjoy.

Secondly, good sensual performance is not a physical thing - it is emotional. So if you are not satisfying her need to be appreciated, dominated, and you're doubting yourself too much, you will mentally abandon her in bed.

Nobody wants to be left, especially in bed.

Thirdly, if you are coming off very "gamey" trying to approach tons of women, and basically trying to say what you think will impress her, she will pick up on this.

How?

It comes out in your body language and vocal tonality, among other things.

But this is just a phase that goes away with experience and success.

Once you have lots of women in your life, you won't have to game anyone - you'll just explode the natural confidence that women respond to.

Having the Natural Confidence is a good way to start:

Beautiful women are out there, waiting for you! Never miss another day of your life.

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I get numbers with no problem and it's actually easy to meet girls when I go out. Actually that's part of the problem because I've been going out and hooking up a lot. Like I mean A LOT. Put it this way my bed is taking a beating you know?</P><p>So here's the problem.... I'm getting girls in bed pretty dang fast. All my friends are always asking me HOW THE HELL DID YOU PULL THAT OFF haha well I try to tell them about your stuff so who knows what they'll do (I have one friend in particular who could really use your stuff)</P><p>I want to make these girls into actual girlfriends. It's like I sleep with girls, but then when I try to call them or set up another date or whatever they don't get back to me. I have to like start over every dang time. What do I do to take it to the next level (we covered this on Sunday but I'm having trouble I think in making the girl think that I really like her like I have a player vibe maybe or something...</P><p>I know I wasn't you weren't there with me but I thought you could help."</P><p>-- from Shane G of Minnesota</P><p>Jeez Shane, I'm so sad for you. You're sleeping with new girls left and right. Awww poor baby.</P><p>I'm kidding. In all honesty, I know where you're coming from man. I had this same problem a few months after I really started putting things together.</P><p>This is actually a really frustrating situation. Imagine doing all that work - approaching (which always requires you to summon up some courage), carrying the interaction all the while focusing on the direction you want to take things (kind of like driving to a location without a map, only cardinal directions), and all the while, still feeling underqualified because you just started doing this kind of thing...</P><p>Ok let's analyze at the three things causing what Shane's getting in terms of how girls treat him.</P><p>Before I say anything, I want to point out that it takes a massive amount of attraction for a woman to sleep with you the first night you meet her.</P><p>So Shane is doing something right. He's clearly internalized the behaviors that make a man DOMINANT, which is the first step when NATURALLY ATTRACTING WOMEN.</P><p>But why are women not staying in touch after sleeping with you?</P><p>First, it could be that they get the sense that he feels he doesn't truly DESERVE to be sleeping with them.</P><p>Second, it could be that Shane is doing bad in bed. And no, I don't mean his actual performance, because that doesn't matter as much as other things. I'll explain later.</P><p>Third, it could be that Shane is sending the wrong message about his INTENTION FROM THE START.</P><p>Let's look at the first issue. If you are just getting started, you may end up fawning over a woman when you get intimate with her, because she's the hottest girl you've ever been with.</P><p>This disappears as time goes by, and then you can appreciate her FULLY, like a dominant, powerful man. This is when beauty is not something you see on a pedestal, but rather something you cherish and appreciate as a gift you can enjoy.</P><p>Secondly, good sensual performance is not a physical thing - it is emotional. So if you are not satisfying her need to be appreciated, dominated, and you're doubting yourself too much, you will mentally abandon her in bed.</P><p>Nobody wants to be left, especially in bed.</P><p>Thirdly, if you are coming off very "gamey" trying to approach tons of women, and basically trying to say what you think will impress her, she will pick up on this.</P><p>How?</P><p>It comes out in your body language and vocal tonality, among other things.</P><p>But this is just a phase that goes away with experience and success.</P><p>Once you have lots of women in your life, you won't have to game anyone - you'll just explode the natural confidence that women respond to.</P><p>Having the Natural Confidence is a good way to start:</P><p>Beautiful women are out there, waiting for you! 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