She tests me again, and I smile without responding. She laughs and I carry on. But, I can feel she’s slightly resistant so I need to pull out some big guns... time for a takeaway.
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I get her laughing and as I feel the interaction hit a high note, I half turn away from her, get my phone out, and start reading a text fellow Love Systems expert Bonsaisent me.
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I can tell her head’s scrambling because I was just making her laugh, she was having fun, and now that feeling is gone because I turned away from her. Now, if I didn’t do this at a high point or if she wasn’t into me, she would most likely lose interest and walk away. That wouldn’t have been a takeaway; that would have been me giving up.  But, because it was on and the conversation had just hit a high note, she grabs my arm and says playfully â€"
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Her: ‘Hey, don’t ignore me!’
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I smile, turn back, and re-initiate conversation. The thing with takeaways is you want her to get the feeling of loss - not necessarily anxiety like she would if you stated a boundary, but more that she feels has to chase you. Then the reward, which was a smile and reinitiating conversation, is essential to make her feel like she’s got your attention back. The reward of a takeaway when she chases you is vital; otherwise, she will feel like she has to chase you too hard and will give up.
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Even after that small takeaway, her grabbing my arm and having to chase a little made a big shift from me chasing her to her chasing me now. Back to pinging again, takeaways can also be used as pings; you can tell how much a woman is into you by how much she is willing to chase. A couple minutes later, however, she says again â€"
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Her: ‘Seriously though, are you a player?’
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Daxx: ‘I told you just because I’ve got a different girlfriend for every day of the week doesn’t make me a player!’
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Her: [Laughs]: ‘Honestly though, are you a player?’
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Alright, enough’s enough. Time to push more towards boundaries so I say (In a neutral tone) â€"
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Daxx: ‘Look, I think you’re really cute and I’m having fun talking to you. It was funny before, but it’s pretty rude of you to keep asking that.’
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Takeaways give the woman the feeling of loss, but stating boundaries gives the woman the feeling she needs to correct her behaviour. That’s not a huge boundary, but it’s enough for her to feel it. She then responds with â€"
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Her: ‘I’m sorry, I just didn’t know if I was just another number to you.’
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Now she’s on board. Remembering that the reward is essential, I say â€"
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Daxx: ‘It’s cool. Look, are you having fun?’
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Her: ‘Yeah.’
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Daxx: ‘Then let’s keep having fun!’
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It’s not too long until it’s 2am and the lights start to come on so I say â€"
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Daxx: ‘You ready to get out of here?’
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Her: ‘Yeah, my friends are outside.’
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Daxx: ‘Let’s go.’
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We make our way outside but her friends aren’t there so she says â€"
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Her: ‘Wait here; I think my friends are still inside.’
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Daxx (playfully): 'Well, be quick because I'm not waiting forever!'
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We talk with her friends for a bit and while doing so out of the blue a woman from a couple weeks before comes out of nowhere, playfully hits me on the arm and says â€"
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Other Woman: ‘Hey mister, do you remember me?’
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I hadn’t hooked up with this woman or anything, but was with Braddock a couple weeks back and it was “on†with these two women he and I were talking to.  So, now I have to keep it cool with her, keep it cool with the other woman, and keep it cool with her friends. With some friendly teasing out of earshot I tell the woman from a couple weeks ago that we’ll hang out with Braddock and her friend soon.
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Back to woman #1 and her friends. I whisper in her ear ‘Let’s go.’
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We say goodbye to her friends and start walking to catch a cab. It’s going well and from all the hard work this is going to be an epic pull, but the best is yet to come. I hail a cab down and literally as the cab pulls up she goes â€"
Author Resource:
MIAMI PUA,
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AUTHOR, SPEAKER, COACH,
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Elite Seduction Labs,
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(Over 2,000,000 Downloads Worldwide),
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Le Petit-Paris, France 75116,
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