Comfort can be a deal maker or a deal breaker. If not handled right attraction can quickly fade away. For too long I did not realize that it was easy to get overly involved in the activity I chose for my date.  At the bootcamp I talked about last time, they explained that the activity is to be used as an accelerator to accomplish the end goal, i.e. a sexual relationship. No wonder I was having a hard time getting past the friendship zone. I made this mistake for quite some time. I was having great activity dates but I was not utilizing the moments from the activity to progress towards a sexual relationship.
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The Love Systems bootcamp took care of this sticking point for me. At the bootcamp the instructors devoted a big portion of the seminar to discuss comfort and dates. They presented lot of material and ideas. They explained how to use these tools to build trust and progress towards establishing sexual relationships.  I learned at the bootcamp that it is not the activity itself but the high and low points within the activity that one has to take advantage of. My scuba diving date was an idea that I got at the bootcamp. The instructors broke down the activity step by step for students. I simply had to put it to practice on my dates. From my scuba diving example, the instructors explained that just going on scuba diving for a date won’t build trust automatically and bring the girl to your arms. I would have to use the moments from this activity to build comfort and escalate sexual tension. The activity will provide me with opportunities to use the tools that I learned.
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The instructors gave specific examples like:
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·  Right after you discuss the emergency measures for your dive, it would be a good time to look into her eyes or hold her hands and say with a smile “we will be fine together.â€
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·  Cash in the excitement of scuba diving right after the dive by telling her how comfortable it felt diving with her, etc.
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The idea was that she is already in a good, positive emotional state because of the activity. I needed to make her realize that she was in this state because the two of us were together. This will form/strengthen the bond between us.
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One also has to continue to escalate physical contact to build sexual tension. InMagic Bullets Savoy has given some really nice ideas on how to initiate the first kiss without the fear of rejection. After reading it I learned how to maintain and keep the sexual tension growing after the first kiss. I am sure many of us have experienced how the tension disappears after the first kiss. This ultimately results in the death of attraction unless the tension builds again. The interview on Physical Escalation and Kissing has some amazing tips on this topic as well. The interview gave me some cool ideas on how to keep escalating physical contact and grow the sexual tension which will ultimately lead to sex.
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During the bootcamp I not only learned the steps for physical escalation but got to observe the instructors. They explained every step of physical escalation. They taught me when to and when not to escalate. They also provided us lots of cool tips to keep advancing with escalation. At night I got to see them demonstrating physical escalation using the same tools that they taught us during the seminar portion of the bootcamp. After this I really had no problem with building sexual tension and physically escalating with my dates. I applied all this stuff to my scuba date and as I mentioned earlier the date ended up with us having sex.
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In my next letter I will cover the topic of seduction. Until then use these resources, and at least go out and fix your dating life to this point. Use the tools from my letters. If you are still confused or stuck with a particular sticking point write toJeremy at Love Systems and let him guide you towards the next step. I guarantee you that if you follow this map you will soon be having threesomes and spending your life with beautiful women around you. Don’t let fear stop you from making positive changes in your life. You have the entire community standing by to support you. So go out and improve your dating life. I wish you all the best!
Author Resource:
MIAMI PUA,
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AUTHOR, SPEAKER, COACH,
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Elite Seduction Labs,
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(Over 2,000,000 Downloads Worldwide),
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112 Avenue Kleber,
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Le Petit-Paris, France 75116,
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Tel: 1.206.338.3769,
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Website:
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http://sellherbody.com
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