Why is it that every guy you become interested in winds up running away or deciding that you might be better off just being friends? Is there some hidden flaw in you that you can't see but every man that you try to date sees? Maybe you're doing something to drive them away without knowing it or maybe you are just destined to spend your life alone. You have no idea what's going on but you wish that just one time you could be the girl that gets the guy.
It's driving you crazy. You just want a boyfriend. Is that too much to ask? It just seems that every guy you fall for winds up choosing another girl or you fall into the friend zone just when things start to get serious. You can feel that he's into you. You're sure of it. Then with clock-like precision, he tells you that he has started dating someone or he sits you down to give you the talk that you've heard far too many times. He tells you that he doesn't feel anything more than friendship for you.
You might not know it but you're probably doing this to yourself. You're nice and understanding but maybe you're overdoing things a bit. There's a pretty good chance that you become just a little too nice. While this might be a bit of a fault, it's a good fault to have and one that can be cured quite easily. It's actually a lot easier to deal with than being selfish like many of the girls that always seem to get the guys that you're interested in. While a guy might find that a challenge and entertaining for a short period of time, you have see these relationships break up almost as fast as they start. So, of the two faults, you are fortunate to be who you are and have the kind of character that is very close to what a guy is looking for in a woman.
You are the complete opposite of selfish. You often find guys that are nice and kind. You begin to get to know each other and before you know it you're falling in love. You devote yourself to getting to know him and you put your heart and soul into this relationship. You listen to him and enjoy spending time with him. You don't complain when he needs to change plans or if he forgets to call. You aren't clingy or rude to him like other girls are. You're happy and you want him to be happy so you give him the benefit of the doubt at every corner.
While you might think that everybody likes someone who is nice there is a good chance that you take it a little too far. When you decide that you're really into this guy you might go a bit over the edge and change. You might become his girlfriend before he's really ready for it. Even though you're not really doing anything wrong, he will feel the shift and it might freak him out. This subtle shift can put you in the friend zone pretty quickly and he might even be baffled by how his feelings have changed. His instincts will tell him that things have changed and, like an animal that subconsciously knows when it's about to fall into a trap, he will react to this change.
From now on, when you start to feel that things are approaching that boyfriend and girlfriend stage, remember what I'm saying here. Try not to push too much or think of him like your boyfriend. Resist that urge to even think of asking him where the relationship is heading. I know it's exciting and you want to have a boyfriend but just let things take their natural course. Don't worry if it seems sometimes that he's not completely into you or you fear that you're falling into the friend zone. Allow your relationship to deepen as friends to best friends and the natural turn of events will be that you will have those intimate moments where you get that first kiss and without a word you'll have a boyfriend.
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