You look at yourself in the mirror and you feel like you're simply not pretty enough to win the heart of the guy you like. While you might not classify yourself as ugly, you feel like you're just not in the same league with the man of your dreams. He's handsome and clever and funny and you dream about him falling in love with you but you just think that you don't have what it takes to get his attention and hold it.
I do have a little secret to share with you though. Almost every woman on the face of the planet thinks that they're not pretty enough. No matter how gorgeous a woman is, she will always find flaws in herself and she will always be able to find someone that is prettier or has something that she feels that she is lacking. When it comes to men, these insecurities become more apparent and the pressure to be the prettiest girl in his life makes us hyper critical.
But can you get a guy's attention with your beauty? Can being pretty give you an edge over your competition? If it wasn't so important then we wouldn't have a huge cosmetics industry and women everywhere wouldn't be working so hard to look good, right? If you are the prettiest girl around then you have a chance with him. If you can attract him with your girlish figure and if you always look your best then he will value you and want to be with you, right?
It's often when you think these words aloud that they seem the most ridiculous. It's only after we realize how much emphasis we are putting on how we look that we see the error in our ways. Sure, you can try to look your best but if you are relying almost solely upon how you look and if that is the sole reason why a man might want to be with you then you will be crushed someday. Someday a prettier woman will come along, get his attention and you'll lose your man. Someone skinnier, with better skin, a curvier figure or different colored hair will catch his eye and he'll be gone. Stressing out over how you look and trying to outdo the other girls that might want to date the guy you're interested in is a recipe for disaster. There has to be more to you than how you look to make him fall in love with you.
There is always the option to play him. You can mess with his mind and play games with his psyche in order to create attraction and make him want to be with you. There is a ton of information out there that will show you how to play games with a man's mind and many people say that this works.
The rules that you must learn and abide by might be a little too much for you to handle though if you are really into this guy. You already know some of the rules like not answering his calls or text messages right away and not acting overly interested in him. Then there's also using other guys to try to make him jealous and make him chase you. There are more rules but it's actually pretty easy to manipulate a man and make him fall for you, right?
But is manipulation and deceit really the way to get the guy of your dreams? What if there's another girl that isn't playing games with him. Maybe there's someone else that might actually show him some genuine attention. Would that win out over your games? While there are those that say that playing games works, it can be a gamble.
Honestly, if this guy is worth your time and you want a real relationship with him then you'll avoid all the games and fakeness and be yourself. It really is a lot easier in the long run to be yourself and let him fall in love with you while you fall in love with him. Being pretty might turn his head but it's the woman that you are that will make him want to spend time with you. If you're into playing games he very well might decide that there is simply too much drama involved in being with you and he'll look for someone that actually shows an interest in him. It's how a guy feels when he is with a certain girl that wins his heart and makes him fall in love with her.
For a man to truly fall in love with a woman he needs to feel a certain way when he's around her. This feeling goes beyond some sort of shallow pride that comes with having a pretty girl on his arm. This feeling comes from within and when he is with a woman he truly loves he feels strong and handsome and intelligent because that is how she makes him feel. It's not your outer beauty or any game that you can play that will make a man feel these feelings. It comes from loving him with your heart and understanding him. A man feels truly loved and will give that love in return when he trusts a woman that honestly cares about him. Win his heart and he will become the most romantic and loving boyfriend that you've ever had.
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