We all know a person or friend who is naturally confident, they are totally relaxed in their own skin and are normally very outgoing in any new social setting.
You may be more introverted and prone to blushing in social environments. These naturally confident people are not so "natural" as you would imagine though - you too can create changes and become just like them.
Confidence is a skill that anyone can develop and train. The reason why these people are confident and you aren't is that they have developed a confidence feedback loop at an early stage in their life - they have encountered positive responses to their behavior and efforts (perhaps they have been praised or told they are funny at some point) so they kept growing in confidence. Perhaps you didn't receive such a positive response, but instead were laughed at even, or perhaps rejected when you made efforts to act more outgoing, so instead of growing more confident you entered a negative spiral and became more introverted. A confidence spiral of decline.
Confidence is an internal state and is only real within your mind - i.e. in the way you think and act, and more importantly your self beliefs and convictions about what you are and aren't capable of. Once you have the skillset to change these patterns of thinking within your mind and rewire your self beliefs then you will also become more confident.
How Do I reset or rewire My Beliefs?
This is when subliminal audio can be very useful!
Subliminal audio recordings can access deep into your subconscious mind to make positive changes to these limiting self beliefs and negative ways of thinking which are holding you back and making you appear un-confident. Gradually they will replace them with positive beliefs and plant the seeds of a confident personality instead - basically to stop you thinking in the way that you do and help you to embed the types of beliefs shared by the confident types of people that people you admire.
Can you imagine what it would feel like to not feel awkward and out of place in social gatherings, to have the confidence to do what you wanted with your life
Make a change within your subconscious mind straight away. If you have not used subliminal messages before you can download free subliminal messages albums including one for Building Self Esteem at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZGL5JNHKgs