There are lots of articles that talk about The Law of Attraction and how it works. You can also find plenty of exercises that help us align our thoughts and vibrations to match and manifest into our life experiences what we want. The Law of Attraction works, and will bring into reality what we are thinking about the most or focused on consciously or subconsciously. Those experiences can either be negative or positive.
About 4 years ago my marriage collapsed, and I found myself separated. After a number of months of being on my own I decided I wanted to find a companion that I could start a new relationship with. It didn't take long before I met someone and we started dating. Over the course of a year I struggled to make a connection with this new woman in my life and failed miserably. Then one day I recall sitting on my couch alone and waiting for the next weekend and said to myself "This isn't what I want" and "How did I attract someone into my life that is so similar to my ex-wife"?
The similarities between the two women were startling to me. They both:
• Were of similar ethnic backgrounds
• Based their own personal value on what they possessed
• Were constantly unhappy with what they currently had
• Were overly concerned with their looks
• Were very concerned with what others thought of them
• Majored in Psychology at a university level
How did this happen to me? What I wanted and asked the universe for was to be in a new relationship with someone to love. Looking back and reflecting on my thoughts and feelings I soon discovered that the main focus of my thoughts had been the loss of my family and wife. What I was projecting to the universe was "I wanted back what I had lost". What the universe or The Law of Attraction provided me with was a new version of my ex-wife.
During this time frame I had been studying The Law of Attraction. It was easy for me to see how this had happened. I was able to identify clearly what I didn't want and translate it into what it was that "I truly wanted or desired".
I wanted a relationship where I could:
• Love someone and be loved back
• Share affection
• Be accepted as I am and not try to change me into an image of who I should be
• Have similar interests and dreams
• Be comfortable with my partner in any situation in any place
When I started focusing on these things and the positive feelings associated with them it didn't take long to attract into my life the most wonderful woman in the world to me. We have been together for 3 years, and life has been wonderful. I hope you have enjoyed reading this little journey of mine. It is a true story, and it is a great example The Law of Attraction in action.