The most disappointing thing for a man is to find out that the woman he really adores for a very long time has no feeling for her and only wants to be his friend . This kind of circumstances can be even more upsetting if you spent so much effort and devoted a lot of time courting her but in the end, it all goes out in trash. If you are in agony from this dilemma, these are some few pointers how to deal with it and stop being a fool. Realize these things:
*Change your usual approach A lot of guys find it very difficult to say directly to the woman that they want to take these understandings to an upper level, serious relationship. If you don t want say the honest truth about what you feel, the most excellent thing you can make is to alter your typical approach to her. Make her perceive this amendment in you and in a short time, she will slowly value your importance and in return, she will treat you the way it should be.
*You have to make her jealous Since you are her friend, she always expect that you are always there for her, true? Now, you should stop being there for her every now and then. Start making connections or flirt with other women and be certain that she noticed it that you are going out with other gorgeous women. If she asks you out, tell her you that you have a lot of work to do with a cold tone. This kind of draw will definitely make her think about you even more, realizing that she is slowly loosing. And she will begin opposing with other gorgeous women to get back your attention to her.
*You should tell her honestly about what you feel If you don t like this friend treatment, you should tell her honestly about what you feel for her from the beginning. Say it honestly that you are ready to start being her friend, but make her understand that you don t want this friend situation to stay this way forever.
*Be her dream man For instance, she really likes man who is really has self confidence or a man that has goal in life. In that case, you should turn yourself into that kind of guy. If she really is attracted to extroverts, then you should be that kind of man too. Make it all happen! Do the things she likes about a guy. For this reason, you will get her attracted to you in no time.
*You should just accept the reality The moment she tells you about her feelings that she only looks at you as a friend, stop persuading and accept the truth. Take it like a true gentleman. Stop pretending and stop assuming that she will change her mind. Stop wasting your time and end your effort convincing her. Keep in mind, there are lots of fishes in the ocean to catch.
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