It is easier than you think to have an amazing night out. Really, all the answers to achieve this are in your own hands. Here are a couple of tips to make it happen.
Dress the part. This is not a night to schlep around in your work clothes. If possible, go home before your night out, shower, shave and dress in your best. Maybe something like that formfitting black button up shirt with a few buttons undone, your most stylish jeans, your worn in leather belt with the cool buckle and your hippest shoes polished to perfection. Throw on some cologne and if you wear jewelry, a unique bracelet, like black leather one or whatever your style is.
Once you are dressed for the night out, set the tone for the night by having a “planning” cocktail (or coffee if you are a teetotaler) either at home or at a local bar or café with your mates. Take this time just to relax and have fun talking to your friends or others and getting pumped up for the evening out. Here is when you can discuss where you want to go and what you want to do that night. It could be a new hip dance club, it could be a loft party, it could be a grungy bar with pool tables.
Sometimes the decision on where to go is based on what you want to achieve that night. Do you want a cut loose night with the guys where you can joke and laugh over a pool game? Do you want to dance to loud music and blow of the workday stress? Do you want to meet women? What you are looking for will determine where you go.
Once you decide where you are going, think about your objective. Decide that to have an amazing night; all you need to do is have fun. You can’t control whether a woman gives you her number or dances with you, but you can control your attitude about it. Go into the night with the attitude that what other people do on this night does not matter. What matters is you having a good time with your friends.
If you walk into any situation with this attitude, it is infectious and you are bound to have an amazing night.
You can set the mood instantly with everyone else and you can adapt your plans to make it happen. If you go to that corner bar and it is quiet except the regular old guy sitting in the corner, ditch those plans and go somewhere else. If you show up at the loft party and it is full of a bunch of uptight snobs, bag it. Head somewhere else.
However, don’t be super quick to decide a place is boring, however, because remember, you are in charge of the fun. You might be able to turn that quiet corner bar into the happening place to be just based on your attitude.
If you like to drink, one other thing to keep in mind to have an amazing night is decide ahead of time what your limit is and stick to it. Many an amazing night has been ruined by overindulgence.
The key to remember is that if you want to have an amazing night it is completely within your hands. It has nothing to do with how other people act or react around you. It is all about your decision to have an amazing time and with this attitude you are unstoppable.
Author Resource:
Bill Preston has been studying personal development and dating advice for the past 5 years and is a guest instructor at the top Pick Up Artist Boot camp in NYC. He loves sharing his experience and expertise with other men looking to improve their lives. Find out more at http://www.puaforums.com
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