Our children are our future, so it is important for you to mould them in their formative years and ensure that their self esteem needs are met. Studies have shown that children who suffer from traumatic events in their formative years tend to have several self esteem issues later in life, and as they become adults these problems may exacerbate into something worse. Nipping this problem in the bud is imperative, and this article will show you some of the more important considerations you should note when building self esteem in children.
Parents should know that children tend to learn and absorb the things they see around them. In their formative years, a child’s brain is like a sponge, constantly taking in every experience he encounters. It is important to fill that mind with positivity rather than negativity, as positivity tends to build a strong sense of self worth as the child matures.
In order for you to help build a positive sense of self esteem in your child, you should be aware of your interactions with your child. Show them your own positive traits and strong self esteem. Tell your child that it is perfectly fine for them to be proud of their own abilities, and any shortcoming is only a step towards success. Build upon their past successes by praising them and giving them positive feedback. Show your child that you love seeing the little things they get up to, express your love for your child in the best possible manner you can think of.
If your child shows a certain displeasure or sadness, you need to have an open channel of communication. Speak to them honestly and positively. Reserve your judgment and criticism to yourself. Your child may not be emotionally mature enough to understand whatever it is that is going on with them, so it is your duty as a parent to guide them along and sort through the difficult circumstance with a positive outcome. Encourage certain positive behaviours or traits whenever they encounter a negative circumstance. If your child is at the stage where he may be emotionally mature enough to come to his own conclusion about certain matters, ask for their input, get them more involved in the brainstorming of solutions for their situations. This will make them feel worthwhile, as you would have acknowledged his input as being important.
Also, if your child is mentally mature enough, get them to start setting goals for themselves. Help them along when necessary, but always ensure that the goals they set for themselves are not too lofty for them to achieve. It is fine to “dream big”, but keep in mind failure to achieve big dreams will also result in big downfalls. Do not make the goals too complex. Do not only give praise at the end of every achievement, but praise them even if they fall short. Dust them off and get them running once again. Always acknowledge their strength and ability, as it will go a long way in building their self esteem.
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