Has your relationship ended and you're left asking "How can I get my ex back even after they've moved on?" Well, don't waste time moping or being sad, there's no point because even though you have lost something, doesn't mean you've lost it forever. Here are some simple tips on how to get your ex back even if they've moved on to another relationship and no longer appear to be interested in you.
1- The first step to getting your ex back is to find a way to convince your ex that they still want you. Unless your ex really really wants nothing to do with you, then there are plenty of things you can do to change their mind.
2- One of the best steps you can take here is to be a good friend to your ex. Be a really good friend and show your ex that you understand them and can hang out with them without a bunch of drama. Show your ex that you can joke and have a fun healthy friendship no matter what. When the stress and drama of the break up blow over, there is a very good chance that your ex will realize they still want you.
3- When talking with your ex, it's super important that you stay friendly and be nice, but don't think that means you can't have a little attitude or make jokes. The goal here is that your ex wants you, but you don't want them to necessarily think they can have you back right this moment, not just yet. While playing games isn't the best way to build a good relationship, playing a little hard to get will make your ex much more interested in you.
4- You have to play a little hard to get, but it's also important that your ex knows that you are available. Don't ignore the concept of flirting and hanging out with friends, causing a little jealousy won't hurt. But, and this is big, it's important that your ex knows you're still available or they won't be motivated to pursue you.
5- Never, ever, ever act desperate. Ever! Did I say that enough? If you act desperate, your ex will underestimate you and start to lose interest. Your goal is to make your ex intrigued, so you want to play it cool so that your ex knows that you are ok with everything that happened between you two and that you're ready to move on. Acting desperate will cause things to go down hill very fast, and eventually not work out at all. Don't act desperate.
6- If you catch your ex looking at you, or think your ex is looking at you, look at them out of the corner of your eye with a sort of sidelong glance. This will convey the message that you're paying attention, but give them a feeling of I see you, but you can't have me.
7- Something else you can do is casually bring up good memories to remind your ex of the great times you had together and the good things about being together. Be careful when you do this, though, so you don't bring up any bad memories. Bad memories will only push your ex further away and cause them to remember the hurt you shared.
Outlined above are just the first steps in winning your ex back. When I lost the love of my life, I followed these exact steps and turned to a guy by the name of T Dub Jackson for help winning my ex back. See my site for more advice tips and secrets to win back your ex.
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