If you are still clinging to the idea about getting your ex back, then you should pass the break up tests he will throw at you. Always remember that in any relationship, it should be a partnership not a single man show. Just like in instances where one does all the taking and the other does all the giving, then it is not pleasant at all.
In the event when the relationship is over, the ex who does all the taking will do some break up tests to discover if he still has an effect on you. Passing this breakup test is very important in order to create a harmonious and happy relationship.
These are the tests on breakups and tips on how to succeed over them.
The Beck and Call Test
This is when your ex calls up out of the blue to see if you can do something for him or her. Whether it's coming over to fix a leaky faucet or cooking a favorite meal you prepared in the past or some other trivial matter you do not want to drop what you are doing to be there for your ex.
If it is a serious matter of personal health or even emotional well being (the loss of a family member) that brings you back together it's one thing. Otherwise you need to let your ex learn what it means to really be without you. He or she will never do that if you are always available.
The First Ring Enthusiasm
You have been praying that your ex will call. On anything, never pick up the phone as it rings... Let the phone ring a couple of times - this will give your ex the impression that you have a life beyond him. Yes, you are not totally over with your ex but that does not mean that you won't move on. Answering upon the phone rings test is your ex's way of knowing is he is still important to you or not.
The Two-Minute Text Reply Enthusiasm
The final test that is often used as part of breaking up tests by exes around the world to test your continued interest or eagerness to please is the text turnaround time test. If you respond within two minutes of them sending you a text it's not necessarily a good sign for you. Make your ex wait on you for a change. You should not be at the beck and call of your ex. It's not healthy. A healthy relationship is a partnership. You are both there for each other. If you can't clearly define these parameters while you are broken up then you will have no hope of defining your roles if you wind up getting back with your ex.
Passing this break up test is very useful for you and your ex. This will help you determine the kind of relationship you want and be able to maintain your individuality as person that deserves to be respected.
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