Probably the most asked question by young men after breaking up with their sweetheart is "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back?" This is the most devastating time in a young man's life. He begins to think and rethink what he did wrong or what he didn't do. Most likely he will start to write letters of apology for all the things that went wrong and plead for another chance.
This course of action usually ends up in disaster because in the eyes of his ex girlfriend he was the problem and she feels that she is better off without him. Unfortunately the real reason for the breakup may not even be known to either party. There are so many emotions that lead up to a breakup that it's hard to pinpoint the real reason and not knowing the real reason makes it hard to fix. Continuing to try figuring out what went wrong can cause so much frustration that it's harmful. So what do you do...
The first main strategy is to put your mind and energy on something else. Let time heal some of your wounds. Go out with your friends and make some new friends. Forget about your problem for a while and focus on your assets. Get some solid viewpoints regarding meeting new friends and expand your approach on talking with women. Take a month or so to forget about your ex girlfriend and your prospective will improve immensely.
By using this plan you will be able to make small changes in your life and your perception of relationships will become much clearer. After a few months you can then think clearly whether or not you want to try to get your ex girlfriend back. If it was true love you had for your ex you will know it. It won't disappear in a matter of months and if it does then the breakup was the best move. But if you are still in love with your ex girlfriend..you will know it.
If at this time you still want to get back with your ex, then you need to figure out how she feels about you. This is the time for you to come up with a plan to get her back but whatever you do DO NOT BEG because this is no time to get emotional. It's kinda like winning a football game or going to war. You need a strategy that will convince your ex girlfriend that you two are meant to be together.
Instead play it a little cool. If you two have been apart for a few months she probably missed you as well as you miss her. Play a little hard to get but don't over do it. Let her see that you're doing OK. This will start her thinking and reconsider the whole situation.
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If getting back together with your ex girlfriend is what is supposed to happen then now is the time that you and she will know it. Don't over analyze things just go with the flow. Remember your main desire to get back together. Just be calm and take things slow and everything will be fine. There are many secrets to learn about the Magic of Making Up .
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