Are you still in love with your ex husband? Do you want to get him back desperately? If you are one of many women in this situation, then you need to read through this article. You will learn the steps you can take to successfully win back your ex husband.
Here are some important things you need to consider when trying to get your ex husband to come back to you. First, you need to accept that your relationship has changed. Next, you need to make sure that you do not neglect your own well being. Third, you must realize that the only person you have complete control over is yourself.
What must you do next?
Avoid all communication with your ex husband. This means stop calling him, emailing him or contacting him in any way. This will give each of you some breathing room. If your ex husband feels smothered by you or your desperation, it will only keep him further away from you. Remember this is temporary, but very powerful. Although it may seem like a long time, avoid contact with your ex for at least a month. Each day you do this it will get easier.
The reason that you want to stop all contact with your ex husband is because both you and him have become used to this behavior of yours. Your ex has gotten used to hearing from you on a regular basis and it leaves him with no motivation to have to seek you out. By not having any contact with him, now he has a reason to wonder where you are or what you are doing and why you haven't called. So you see, the table will begin to turn and this will give him a chance to contemplate your whereabouts.
One of the most important thing that you have probably let go of is your well being. If you are constantly thinking about your ex husband, then when do you have time to think about yourself? Now that you are focused on not having any contact with your ex for a while, turn your attention to yourself. Start by taking better care of both your physical and emotional health. Choose to eat healthy, get some exercise and do things that please you.
This is a great time to pick up the phone and start calling good friends and family - people you may have lost contact with for a while. You will be surprised at how supportive and loving people are and it is worth it to get yourself to a happy place again. So don't isolate yourself during this time. Get social instead. Do not use this as an excuse to talk about your ex. The point is that you need to NOT talk about your ex. You will see there is a whole world out there waiting for you to have fun with. Don't ruin it for everyone around you including yourself by talking about the one subject that brings you down - your ex.
OK so now you have made it this far. You have survived without calling your ex (who knows he may have already called you by now). You have also learned that you have full control over yourself and your life. You probably felt so powerless when your ex left you. As a result you gave him all the control. Now you know that you had it all along and you just needed to reach deep within yourself to find your self confidence again. This is very cool!
By breaking old habits and stretching yourself in the following ways; not being desperate anymore, getting healthier and gaining confidence in yourself, you are making your decisions from a position of strength rather than weakness. You are the one who decides if or not you want to get your ex husband back again. If the answer is still yes, now you are in control of your decision, not your ex. Your new found self confidence is very attractive and your ex may just find you irresistible.
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