Well do you? Do you want to work on your relationship and save it? If the answer is YES, then I can help you. I won't tell you what to do, you don't need to hear that from me. I don't know you. And you don't know me, yet.
Please let me introduce myself. I am a 40 year old husband and father from the Netherlands. Being married for almost 16 years and not knowing how to change the disaster I was facing in my relationship was difficult for me. I know I had to do something because I wanted to make this work. I had to save this relationship. How did I do it? I made the decision to act. Searching and reading anything that I thought could help me. I will show you what I found most usefull later on, but first I would like to tell you what I have learned that changed the way she looks at me now.
SEE IT WITH MY EYES OPEN
It sounds obvious, but I first had to realise what was going on. Something was wrong, I knew that. But what was it that made it so hard for me to change. The more I searched for answers the more I became aware that I needed to look much closer. I opened my eyes and looked at the guy in the mirror. There I was looking back at me.
NO MORE EXCUSES
It takes a big man to admit that he was wrong and say sorry. Sometimes it is even a bit humiliating for us guys, isn't? You will find it easier after a while, I certainly did. But we know better, right? We know we should keep ourselves out off situations we need to apologize for. No more nagging about the laundry, take the garbage out without her asking you again. Take responsibility and make sure we stay in the safety zone. No more excuses for having to say sorry.
THE FLEXIBLE ME
We run a busy household. Always things to do. So we need to cover for each other. "Yes honey, I will take the kids to school after I am done with the groceries."
That's an easy one. It get's more interesting when you need to drop everything you were doing and help her out. Now! I learned to give more and more and therefore became more flexible towards my wife. It turned out great. Because every time I ask her to do something for me, she wants to help me to.
MY HABITS
The biggest challenge for me was to fight my habits. I learned to enjoy healthier foods, exercise more and increase my energy level in just a couple weeks. I became a different man. At least that is what she told me, and I just love it when she is right! There are more habits for me to work on and I have made a list. Ready for her to be even more right than ever.
How you can do it? Now you know a little bit about me and what I picked up along the way to help me. Do yourself a favour and do something. It doesn't even matter what you start with, it is just important that you do it.
What I know is what worked for me. And I only used one solution out there. I recommend it to you because it gave me the right ideas for saving my relationship.
Change and make her love you for it!
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