Whether single or in a long term pairing, women are often confused by men. Let's be honest; there's no guide that explains a man's odd behavior, and any attempt at understanding a man's behavior often leads to even more confusion.
There's a good reason that men are so confusing to women. The male and female brains are actually wired differently from each other! This is a recurring theme in many popular books written for women, and for good reason; it's true advice based on solid psychology.
It's counter intuitive because we're led to believe that we're all pretty much the same, but the shocking truth is that men and women operate on entirely different wave lengths. Before you can understand men, you must accept this simple fact as the truth.
Think about it. When you're out with your girlfriends, what do you usually talk about? Maybe finding a great guy and falling in love and all of that good stuff.
Men are almost the complete opposite. They are not too heavily emotionally invested in fantasies of perfect relationships. Instead, men tend to take a day by day approach with their love life, and don't spend too much time reflecting. That's not to say that men don't talk about women, because they do. It's just that the tone, depth, and purpose of their conversation is miles apart from their female counterparts.
Instead, men focus on more tangible goods such as competition, cars, and physical satisfaction. So are men just more shallow than woman, or not?
No, men are simply different from women! And once you accept and understand male psychology, you can work with it rather than just ending up confused about it time after time.
Another thing to keep in mind is that both men and women are emotional creatures who base the majority of their actions on their feelings. Still, upon close examination, it becomes apparent that men often try to hide their emotions by rationalizing them with makeshift logic that doesn't always make sense. Ever wonder why men often act in ways which are very confusing, and can sometimes seem dishonest? Well, that facet of male psychology has a lot to do with it.
Despite all this, if you can break a man's armor and connect with the soft spot held within, you get to join an elite group of women who actually understand men, despite their confusing ways. As a result, you will enjoy greater success and be able to attract the type of men that you want to attract. Healthy relationships are a key ingredient to happiness, so learning to understand men is definitely worth the effort.
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