In the world of dating, there are some men and women out there who are comparable to beautiful jungle predators that get who they want, when they want with only a minimum of sweat while most of us are plagued with apprehensions of what to say, how to act, and the litany goes on.
The burden of dating expectations is felt doubly by the guy as general etiquette, dictates that he take the lead in that one opportunity to create a favorable impression – the first date.
While a certain level of skill and confidence is required to flirt with women in general, attempting to attract younger women in particular is intimidating for most guys.
Here are some dating tips for men:
Ditch the mentality that the younger woman you really like is out of your league. You can thank society’s double standard for that. Though some people would call it chauvinistic, most women want an older guy as their significant other. When a guy is a few years (okay, sometimes more than a just a few years) older, it gives the impression that somehow he is more emotionally mature to handle a relationship. And while age is never a guarantee of maturity (emotional or in any other aspect for that matter), it certainly still does add to the factor of attraction.
Dating a younger woman is not all that difficult as it seems. Younger women have a naiveté that, while endearing, makes them gullible. While some are very quick to exploit this quality, it is never advisable. Payback is a female dog and when a woman is out for revenge, she can cause some serious damage! You can make your age gap work for you by exuding confidence and being relaxed and laid back. Most younger women (indeed, most women) like somebody they can look up to and who can carry on intelligent conversation in a way they perceive younger men or men their age can’t plus a dash of old world chivalry is always appreciated.
When dating a younger woman, learn to tell the difference between being a gentleman and being a doormat. A gentleman is a man who is chivalrous, gracious, and polite. He is essentially just a nice guy who is quite comfortable with masculine social conventions such as opening doors for a lady, offering to pay for dinner and being cool with it when his date insists on going Dutch, etc. A doormat on the other hand is just basically somebody a woman can walk all over on. Bending over backwards too much to get a women to like you would either just land you in the dreaded “friend zone” or attract a woman who has no qualms about using you. Self respect is the key here.
There are many ways to attract younger women but the most basic is to maintain an aura of mystery. Like moths to a flame, women are drawn to enigmatic men. So go ahead, look at her from across the room, smile, wink, leave and think nothing of it. In this game, you win some and lose some but it sure can be fun!
Author Resource:
Amy Lund is the author of this article on Attract Younger Women .
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