Before you decide to get advice on getting your ex back, you should make sure that you truly comprehend your break up. Numerous people think that they understand their situation, but they don't. Allow me to explain.
When our ex no longer wants to be with us, they usually give us some kind of reason. Maybe you think you have a clear idea of what this reason is, because it was explicit.
On the other hand, perhaps you're feeling at least a little bit confused because the reason that your ex gave you for not wanting to be together was very vague. Maybe it was even a mixed message.
In order to put your mind at ease, it is imperative that you understand the actual cause of your break up. The real reason that your ex doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore can be quite counter intuitive.
If your ex is content on being away from you and no longer wants to be in the relationship, it can only mean one thing -- that your ex is no longer as strongly attracted to you as they once were. Let me tell you something about attraction -- attraction is one of the most powerful emotions that humans are capable of, and it dictates our actions extremely powerfully. If your ex were still attracted to you in the way that they were in the beginning, would they really be able to resist being with you? Can you resist being with them?
Let me give you a clear example of this phenomenon. I'm sure you've seen couples who stay together no matter how many problems they have. And I mean they stay together with some extremely bad problems! Maybe they know they should get away from each other, but they just can't bring themselves to do it because of the strong emotional bond that they have. You may think this is because they are weak people, but that's not the case.
Just like you yourself are feeling victim to the strong forces of attraction, so does anybody who feels it. And your ex is no exception!
If you want to use a powerful, proven mechanism that is proven to make your ex want you, then focus your attention on rebuilding the attraction that was once there. Some people misunderstand me when I say this, because they think that attraction only has to do with how someone looks.
No, attraction is a lot more complicated than that, and it is not a choice. It is mostly mental, actually. Sure, looks contribute, but it's the overall feeling that is most important. And you can influence that feeling with psychology.
It doesn't need to be difficult, either. There are quite a few things you can do to make your ex feel that overwhelming sense of attraction for you that they once did. I don't want to make it sound too easy, but I don't want you over complicating this advice either. Attraction was the beginning of your relationship, and when it fades, it can be the end of it until you do something to turn the situation around.
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