My ex boyfriend and I had been together since the 9th grade. He was my first love, my first kiss, my first everything... Four years ago I took a huge leap of faith, and left him behind to pursue my college dreams in the big city.
I really fell in love with life in the big city. I knew that I could never convince my ex boyfriend to leave our home town, so I ended the relationship, bought a condo and took a job in a nearby hospital.
I spent the next 3 years trying to convince myself that I had made the right decision.
It wasn't until I came home to visit my family, that I knew for sure I wanted to get my ex boyfriend back.
It's not like I expected him to welcome me back with open arms. But I didn't think it would be so hard to get him to open up to me again. I didn't understand why we couldn't just pick back up where we had left off...
And then it occurred to me...
Men feel that they have to hide their emotions in order to be taken seriously. This doesn't mean that they don't have any. I mistook my ex boyfriend's cool demeanor as a sign that he was over me. Truth is, he was just trying to protect himself from getting hurt again...
I knew right there and then that I need to find a way to regain control without him knowing it. I would have to convince him that it was him who wanted me back, not the other way around.
After looking around online for some good advice, I came across a number of great tricks to help me take control and get my ex boyfriend back.
Once I figured out the secret, I was confident that I would get my ex boyfriend back. I learned which words to use and what to do to remind him of how great we were together. I learned how to re-kindle the passion and trust in our relationship.
It has been a full year now since we got back together. So don't give up hope. I got my ex boyfriend back and you can too!
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It isn't too late to rekindle an old flame. Find out what to say and do to make your ex fall in love with you all over again. A happy life is possible. Find out how to get him back and keep him back forever !