Dating is akin to the jungle where hypnotically beautiful predators rule and prey cower on the sidelines. Some people are just so good at the game while others become traumatized casualties convinced they are meant to be alone for the rest of their lives.
Dating expectations are stressful for both men and women. However, men usually feel double the burden since they are expected to take the lead on everything on that one date that can either make or break a guy’s impression on the girl he likes.
A certain level of skill and confidence is what it takes to flirt with women. However trying to attract younger women is something most guys commonly find intimidating.
Here are some dating tips for men:
Ditch the mentality that the younger woman you really like is out of your league. You can thank society’s double standard for that. Though some people would call it chauvinistic, most women want an older guy as their significant other. When a guy is a few years (okay, sometimes more than a just a few years) older, it gives the impression that somehow he is more emotionally mature to handle a relationship. And while age is never a guarantee of maturity (emotional or in any other aspect for that matter), it certainly still does add to the factor of attraction.
Dating a younger woman is not all that difficult as it seems. Younger women have a naiveté that, while endearing, makes them gullible. While some are very quick to exploit this quality, it is never advisable. Payback is a female dog and when a woman is out for revenge, she can cause some serious damage! You can make your age gap work for you by exuding confidence and being relaxed and laid back. Most younger women (indeed, most women) like somebody they can look up to and who can carry on intelligent conversation in a way they perceive younger men or men their age can’t plus a dash of old world chivalry is always appreciated.
When dating a younger woman, learn to tell the difference between being a gentleman and being a doormat. A gentleman is a man who is chivalrous, gracious, and polite. He is essentially just a nice guy who is quite comfortable with masculine social conventions such as opening doors for a lady, offering to pay for dinner and being cool with it when his date insists on going Dutch, etc. A doormat on the other hand is just basically somebody a woman can walk all over on. Bending over backwards too much to get a women to like you would either just land you in the dreaded “friend zone” or attract a woman who has no qualms about using you. Self respect is the key here.
There are many ways to attract younger women but the most basic is to maintain an aura of mystery. Like moths to a flame, women are drawn to enigmatic men. So go ahead, look at her from across the room, smile, wink, leave and think nothing of it. In this game, you win some and lose some but it sure can be fun!
Author Resource:
Amy Lund is the author of this article on Flirt With Women .
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